Sa kahit anong problemang haharapin mo kada araw. Ngiti lang kahit masakit, ngiti lang kahit mahirap, kahit malungkot, kahit gusto mo nalang sumuko, kahit sawa kana, kahit pagod kana at kahit ano pa yang nararamdaman mo ngayon. Alam mo kung bakit? Kasi araw araw ka binibigyan ni God ng chance para mabuhay sa mundo, para maging dahilan ng ngiti ng ibang tao, para magbigay pag-asa sa ibang tao, para magpasaya sa ibang tao, para maipakita ang kakayahan mo, para mangarap at para araw araw iparamdam sa bawat isa kung gano kasaya mabuhay at kung gaano kasarap magmahal. :)
Kaya ngiti na, walang mangyayari kung sisimangot ka. Magpakatatag ka!! :)
So you have chosen aloneness. You have chosen the security and the relative freedom of solitude, because there is no risk involved. You can stay up every night and watch your TV shows and eat ice cream out of the box and scroll through your Tumblr and never let your brain sit still, not even for a moment. You can fill your days up with books and coffees and trips to the store where you forget what you wanted the second you walk in the automatic sliding door. You can do so many little, pointless things throughout the day that all you can think of is how badly you want to sleep, how heavy your whole body is, how much your feet hurt. You can wear yourself out again and again on the pavement, and you do, and it feels good.
No one will ever bridge that gap and point to your stomach or your hair or your eyes in the mirror and magically make you see the wonderful things about getting to be next to you. And maybe that’s it, after all, this fear that no one will ever truly feel about you the way you want to be felt about. Maybe what you want is someone to make you love yourself, to put sense into all that positive rhetoric, to make it so the aloneness of TV and blasting music in your ears at all times isn’t the most happy place you can think of. Maybe you want someone who makes you so sure of how wonderful things are that you cannot help but to tell them your feelings first, even at the risk of being humiliated. Because you will know that, when you’re telling them you love them, what you’re really saying is “I love who I become when I am with you.
All my friends thought I was a very happy human being. Because that’s how I acted- like a really happy human being. But all that pretending made me tired. If I acted the way I felt, then I doubt my friends would have really hung out with me. So the pretending wasn’t all bad. The pretending made me less lonely. But in another way, it made me more lonely because I felt like a fraud. I’ve always felt like a fake human being.
– Last Night I Sang to the Monster (Benjamin Alire Sáenz)
alam ko hindi ka okay, maraming sakit ang nakatago dyan sa puso mo kasabay ng mga katanungan sa isip mo. batid ko na hindi madali ang pinagdadaanan mo. pero wag kang susuko, wag kang aayaw.. pwede ka umiyak, pwede kang magreklamo at pwede ka magpahinga, pero wag na wag kang susuko, darating din ang araw na magiging okay ka, yung araw kung saan tanggap mo na ang lahat. sa ngayon, tiisin mo muna ang sakit, iiyak mo nalang muna ang lahat. kakayanin mo yan. magpakatatag ka lang.
A bouquet of clumsy words: you know that place between sleep and awake where you’re still dreaming but it’s slowly slipping? I wish we could feel like that more often. I also wish I could click my fingers three times and be transported to anywhere I like. I wish that people didn’t always say ‘just wondering’ when you both know there was a real reason behind them asking. And I wish I could get lost in the stars.
Listen, there’s a hell of a good universe next door, let’s go.
E.E. Cummings (via wordsthat-speak)
Sige lang. Iiyak mo na. Ilabas mo lahat ng sama ng loob na nararamdaman mo. Wala naman masama kung iiyak ka. Iiyak mo lahat. Umiyak ka hanggat gusto mo. Umiyak ka hanggang maubos lahat ng hinanakit nanararamdaman mo. Tulungan mo yung sarili mong kalimutan lahat. Tulungan mo yung sarili mong…
(Source: p-athologic, via cvmille-santos)
Don’t just settle for less. Everybody deserves much better than they have now, don’t just be contented being last or the second, always prove to them what you can do and what is your worth. Because when you accepted being option and never good enough, people will just always look at you like that, so vulnerable and easy to fool.
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REYNA ng DRAMA
Na walang ginawa kundi hanapin ang isip sa kalawakan [lalim, dude!]
Ako ay pinanganak sa planet EARTH
noong ika-dalawput walo ng Mayo sa isang napaka-ek ek na lugar sa bansang pilipens.
Isang Cute, palamunin at tamad.
Balang araw magbabago din ako.
Kasabay ng paniniwalang,
Balang araw mamahalin din nya ako.
Like what I always say, Ad astra per aspera. A rough road leads to the stars.I'M ON MY WAY TO BECOMING STELLAR.